Monogamy Vs. Open Relationships

It’s nobody’s business, and every relationship is as individual as the people involved in it.  There is no right or wrong about relationships, they just are.  That should all be common sense, right?  And yet, in the gay (male) community, the debate over relationships being monogamous or open, rages on! Not long ago, (on a…

Sexy Older Men: Myth, or Fact?

When I told my partner Steve that I would be writing about this topic as my first article for S.P., he was incredulous. Is there such a thing, seemed to be his reply. I understand his incredulity. In the community we gays have created for ourselves youth and beauty are things to aspire to, things to…

Here I Cum

No meaningful long-term relationship begins without a proper introduction, followed by a little ‘getting to know you’ stage. That impromptu sexual tryst in the john of the Chevron station in Saskatoon?  A result of eye-fucking that Ford F350-drivin’, cowboy-boot-and-tight-Wrangler-jeans-wearin’ hottie during your cross-country road-trip?  Well…that’s a different story.  I’m sure formal introductions weren’t at the…

The Vancouver of the Future; The Future of Vancouver.

I love Vancouver, I love it very much.  I think we’re all very lucky to live here – spoiled,         actually – to have so much freedom, so much diversity, so much natural beauty and such a mild climate.  Mountains, forests, ocean and plenty of fresh water.  People from all over the world, who…