Dealing with Fetish Dress Codes

I am a Dom and have been enjoying the lifestyle on and off for the last 17 years or so.  Wish I can say that I have taken part in events over the years but something always prevented me (more so the wife). I am a widow now of a few years, and have have…

Monogamy Vs. Open Relationships

It’s nobody’s business, and every relationship is as individual as the people involved in it.  There is no right or wrong about relationships, they just are.  That should all be common sense, right?  And yet, in the gay (male) community, the debate over relationships being monogamous or open, rages on! Not long ago, (on a…